Shifts Happen!
September 25th, 2009This article was written by one of the members of Team Thread; our beloved Brandon. It is amazing how embodying a simple ritual can create a shift in your consciousness. It truly is nothing more than a choice that allows us to be free of the old stories that continue to hold us back. What will you do today, to embody a greater tomorrow?
Sundays have always been difficult for me. In my former life, as a young child growing up, Sundays meant a day of rest for my Dad, well deserved after a week of back breaking work on the construction circuit. What it also meant was a day of doing everything within our power to not upset that rest. My brother and I would try our best, but always seemed to come up short of our initial intention. It seemed like the littlest of things would set my Dad off, leaving the rest of my family in a wake of insults and obscenities of which the likes cannot be published in this piece.
What exactly did we do? Or rather, what didn’t we do? It was this type of response that always made us feel as if we were walking on eggshells; which as many of you may already know, is not something you want to make a habit of. Obviously, this carried over into my adult life, and Sundays remained the worst day of the week. Forget that it is the start of the official week; a chance to set the tone for what lies ahead. To me, it was a day of stewing in my own stuff, being as lazy as I could be, and constantly judging myself due to that inactivity. That was until I made a series of changes that would cause me to reevaluate my Sundays and begin to bring awareness to old stories that no longer served me.
The biggest of these changes came after opening up with Kirk and Donny about my aversion to Sundays. During that conversation, it was suggested by Kirk to take the idea of “walking on egg shells” and begin to embody that concept each and every Sunday. His suggestion was to have me save all the eggshells from breakfast throughout the entire week and turn this into a ritual in which I would actually walk on those shells to begin my Sunday, voicing my power while I did so. The reason behind it was to bring more awareness to this old story and realize that it was only hurting me and those around me. My moods, like the moods of my Dad, were interrupting the household and creating problems along the way. I was now affecting my own children in much of the same way; the very thing I swore I would never do. Something needed to happen, and needed to happen fast. This was my chance.
The first time I participated in the eggshell walking ritual, I felt completely at peace. Seeing a grown man stomp discarded eggshells into thousands of pieces is not made-for-TV material, but instantly I felt a wave of satisfaction wash over me. The stomping of the shells was the action I needed to begin shedding that old story and replacing it with a happier version. Bringing voice to it only demonstrated that how you feel is nothing more than a choice, and I was choosing to be happy and content on this most sacred of days. It was in this experience that a subtle shift was made, and a lifetime of walking on eggshells so as not to disrupt the natural balance of the household was now being replaced as a way to embody my personal power. I felt so liberated just in experiencing this one simple act!
It is worth noting that this ritual did not entirely undo a few decades of living with this body story. That of course takes time. However, what it did do was show me that inevitably we are in charge of how we feel and how we act. I am so thankful that I spoke with Kirk and Donny about this, and took the step to do something about it. Who knows where I would be in my development had I just ignored the urge to share my past. It really got me to thinking about the countless others out there who embody much of the same story.
My advice to those would be to think long and hard about what in your past is slowing you, or perhaps even stopping you, from embracing your talents and gifts. Every person has a gift to share with the world, and activating that is just a decision away. You never know, your breakthrough to abundance may be just around the corner.
